THE GRAND ILLUSION
If you have been reading and listening to awakened information you have no doubt heard, “You create your reality and attract what you focus on”. In fact you have heard me say it more than once in my articles and books.
There are plenty of awakened consciousnesses focusing on a new world of peace and cooperation and yet just about everywhere you look in the media you see division and negativity. Some sites that just a few years ago frowned upon divisive articles now seem to post them as their primary content. A quick contrast between YouTube channel video views and subscribers brings the reason into focus. Fear, division and anger are engrained habits within the collective. It is a tool that has been used a very long time and almost everyone is conditioned to respond to it.
I received two questions recently. One is what we should be focusing our attention on in these turbulent times. The other is a request for an update of where the energies on the planet stand. Before I address those questions I’d like to share some of my thoughts on where we currently find ourselves.
As I peer outward into the mainstream chaos I am reminded of a segment from the second Captain America movie where Steve Rogers and Natalia Romanoff are standing in front of the 1970’s era computer that contained the mind of Dr. Zola. He explains to them that freedom can not be taken by force but must be surrendered willingly. However, every battle strategy no matter how well planned, cannot account for the response of the opposing force.
Throughout history tyrants and governments have repeatedly attempted to overreach and enforce total control over their populations, and it always turns out the same regardless of how long the reign of power ultimately lasts. Eventually the populace awakens to the truth of their bondage, rises up in unison and throws off the yolk of oppression. The only thing determining how long the oppression lasts is the obedience and servitude of a key portion of the population. In ancient times this was acquired through an oath of fealty, or allegiance to a king or country. These allegiances were often secured with promises of wealth and power for those solicited.
Now imagine that you have been intimately watching the course of history (true unadulterated history) within this timeline for the last two thousand years. You have knowledge of what worked and what didn’t as subjugation was enforced, and then failed. You know that the oaths of fealty of key individuals in return for wealth and power are effective so they are continually utilized. You also know that the uprising to end the oppression always begins with a select few who can see beyond the illusion. Left alone these individuals spread their awareness to others. This spreading truth creates ripples that continue to expand with increasing speed through the placid ocean of a docile population. The faster you identify these “agitators”, the faster you can silence or alter their message. This is not a new tactic, but in the digital age of information the way one is identified and silenced has changed.
As you watch current events unfold it is important to keep them in perspective and remain emotionally neutral. We have been playing this very same game for thousands of years. Regardless of how hopeless the oppression seems at its worst point, the top heavy structure put in place always falls when the collectively oppressed realize that they have nothing left to lose. Without the foundation of a docile and obedient work force, the structure of oppression topples under its own weight.
Freedom is defined as; The power or right to speak or think as one wants without hindrance or restraint. Something is ‘free’ if it can change easily and is not constrained in its present state.
There was a time not so long ago when a person born in America was truly free. My Grandfather was born in 1902 without a birth certificate. No one had to pay personal income taxes in America before 1913. You didn’t need a drivers license before January 1935, and no one had a social security number before August 1935. Fast forward to today and we all willingly walk around with a GPS tracker on our phone and in our cars that can be located at any moment. What information or opinions you choose to share publicly on the Internet are ‘fact checked’ or removed if they fail to pass someone else’s standard of acceptance. Entire accounts are frozen or removed from social media platforms with no accountability to the freedom of speech that is being withheld.
With each generation, the definition of being free continues to change, and the population as a whole silently accepts the increasingly slippery slope. At what point do we realize that the official definition of freedom no longer resembles the dictionary definition?
And this is where we find ourselves at this very moment. We are being asked as a collective to choose our future (The future includes diverging timelines but let’s keep this simple). In previous videos where I am a client in session, I have looked into the collective and provided what I ‘saw’ as a percentage of the whole. Imagine our current earth collective as a cylinder. In this cylinder is light infused water and dark ink. As the ratio between the two changes, the dark ink is compressed at the top of a cylinder as light pushes up upon it. This compression creates a pressure within the dark ink and it instinctively pushes back in an attempt to regain volume and relevance. This is the classic struggle between the polarities and is a purposeful design. When a large enough percentage of the collective embraces the light, the pressure within the ink portion rises to the point that it begins to dissipate in volume. From an ascended perspective this dissipation looks like black steam venting from the ‘cylinder’ of the planet. As the ink dissipates, the once darkened planet begins to shine as creational energy floods in and is no longer absorbed.
When the awakened community talks in terms of light, frequency, and vibration, they are talking about the effects of creational energy upon a consciousness that is regaining balance. Earth is enveloped in a consciousness that is waiting for its children to wake up to the realization that darkness (negative polarity) is hindering their continued growth.
This brings us to the question of what we all should be focusing on at this time.
The creational energy that uplifts consciousness is what powers the universe. It saturates every corner of the universe and is waiting patiently for all to utilize it. Since consciousness is photonic in nature, when we begin to use it, consciousness is observed to increase in illumination, or ‘light up’. A consciousness embracing creational energy that is ‘lighting up’ will exhibit empathy; the ability to feel the joy or sorrow of others. This leads to compassion; the desire to assist others so that they too may embrace the light within them. We should all be intently focused on cultivating our ability to be empathic. This means that we can look at an individual or institution and immediately ‘feel’ their experience. This level of empathy, deeply feeling what others feel, cultivates the response of compassion. If the entire world did this, inequality and suffering would end. Being empathic also allows you to quickly identify something that is negatively oriented because it will not radiate creational energy but will instead be taking it. The difference is as contrasting as walking out into a sunny day, or falling into freezing water.
Focus on sharing your warmth and shining your light for others. Help them when you can, in whatever way you can. Ignore the deafening clamor of negativity beating its drum and demanding your attention. It is an artificial creation whose power depends upon how many focus their energy upon it. When you finally understand this, its tactics to get your attention seem almost infantile in nature.
The second question was related to the level of polarization the planet is experiencing.
If you are sitting at home watching the talking heads and following the mainstream pundits, negativity seems to be winning. Historically, the official narrative has never been a good indicator of what is really happening because it has always taken power and money to distribute information widely to the masses. True free speech containing the voice of the people always circulates under the radar as the ripples silently grow wider. The Gutenberg press of the 1400s is a prime example of how information traveling under the official narrative ultimately toppled the control system of the time.
What we are witnessing is negative polarity furiously attempting to maintain energetic relevance. This is accomplished through the consciousnesses that have chosen to embrace that polarization. Whether you think this includes nefarious alien races dabbling in earthly affairs, or just power hungry humans wanting to elevate themselves above others is irrelevant. The desired result is the same, an increase in the number of consciousnesses radiating a negative energetic. However bad it seems on the surface, the undercurrent is telling a much different story.
War and killing between factions generates huge amounts of negative energy. Much of the history of this planet is steeped in the blood of conquest. While there are still pockets of this type of carnage at the moment, they are providing little energy for those negatively polarized. The collective consciousness has grown in energetics to the point that it is resisting future calls for widespread warfare. If one is subsequently created, it will smolder and go out rather than become a blaze due to the lack of energetic material required to sustain it. It may not seem like it, but we are creeping ever forward into unity consciousness.
So where are we at the moment in terms of percentages? I was surprised when it was provided in session as a percentage, but what I saw as I said that was the (aptly named) Attitude Indicator from an airplane.
This indicator shows the wings of an airplane in relationship to the horizon. When you are flying level to the ground, the wings are level with the horizon marks on the indicator. If you raise or lower the nose of the aircraft, the wings will be above or below the horizon marks respectively. This is a much better analogy than percentages for what is currently happening with the polarities. As positivity raises the nose of the collective aircraft above the horizon, the negative responds by trying to push the nose back below the horizon and alter the course to their benefit. Immersed in this construct you observe the changes as the wings rise and fall on the attitude indicator and assume this is a true indicator of the overall flight path. However, the flight controllers in the tower are watching a plane create a wavy up and down path that is slowly increasing in altitude. As the plane continues to ascend, negativity continues to lose its ability to shift the course downward.
For the passengers the ride can get a little bumpy. You might even be worried that something is wrong as you are jostled around because you are not in the cockpit or control tower watching the coordination required to safely chart the course.
My advice is this; adjust your seatbelt and order another drink to calm your nerves and trust that we will all reach the destination we agreed upon. Ultimately we are all going to the same destination of unity consciousness. Some have chosen to to take a longer flight that has a layover, and they will be disembarking shortly. Until we arrive at our destination, enjoy yourselves and do your best to get to know and assist your fellow travelers.
In service to all,
Todd R Deviney

 

 

 

 

 

A few weeks ago I was a guest on the show “Here’s Tom with the Weather”. As part of the preparation I was asked to familiarize myself with the twelve steps that are part of the AA curriculum. I found it interesting how well they meshed with the internal spiritual journey each of us are embarked upon. The Earth experience is a rich and expansive course of study. As a result it is easy to get lost in the corridors as you are attempting to navigate to your intended classrooms. There is no right or wrong path, but there are dead end streets that we must eventually find our own way out of if we are to continue the journey.
I hope you find my interpretation as rewarding as I found the exploration of the twelve steps.
A RESPONSE TO THE TWELVE STEPS
1. We admitted that we were powerless over (insert addiction/obsession here) and our lives had become unmanageable.
When we incarnate into a lifetime, we have a general outline of the experiences we want to obtain. We create this outline while we still have access to all the other lifetimes we have ever lived. Using this knowledge, we attempt to fill in the gaps of our experiences to gain a complete understanding of the varying perspectives. This creates balance and wisdom within our consciousness. However, we live in a construct that employs a veil of forgetfulness. This allows us to start each lifetime with a clean slate so that previous biases do not impede our new path. We then live our lives with no recollection of what we had hoped to learn. Earth is a deeply immersive sensory experience, and it is easy to get off track and lose sight of your intended life path. Sometimes you go so far off your path that you find yourself on a dark street that is a dead end. This is the proverbial dark night of the soul and when you find yourself there you have two choices; you can stay in the darkness and live the rest of your life there, or you can look up from that path and search for an exit. This brings us to the second step.
2. Came to believe that a power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity.
Most of us think that the consciousness we possess is a product of the experiences and choices we have made in this single lifetime. The reality is that who we are now has a lot to do with who we have been in prior lifetimes. We have all lived many lifetimes before we incarnated into this one. I have given hundreds of past life regressions and in these sessions, I take my clients to past lives. Many had unresolved issues that were bleeding over and adversely impacting their current life. At the end of the session, we contact the higher self or totality of consciousness, which contains the experiences of every life the person has lived. It knows why you are here and what you were supposed to accomplish. From my perspective, this is the higher power each of us should be attempting to get in touch with because it knows exactly what you are supposed to be doing and learning.
3. Made a decision to turn our will and lives over to the care of God as we understood him.
This statement is a critical concept in aligning your life to the path you intended before you incarnated. The statement implies a surrendering of will to a higher power, but it is much simpler than that. The surest way to tell if you are following your path is by how easy it manifests and what the results are. Suppose you are clawing your way up the corporate ladder to financial gain. You are making great money and have all the things society equates with success, but you are miserable doing it, your family life is suffering, and divorce is looming. This is the life you created, and you feel trapped in the choices you have made. You can keep your hands firmly upon the rudder of life and continue to force your way into the wind, or you can let go and let the wind and current shift your course back to the intended path. The wind and current are being generated by your higher self and fighting these forces always manifests as discomfort. Being in the flow is effortless and manifests as joy and happiness in your life. Being happy and joyful is the intended experience and when we use them as signposts, we can be sure we are on the right path.
4. Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves.
This is something we should all be doing, all the time. With age comes wisdom, or at least it should if we are continually reassessing and realigning our moral compass. I think everyone can look back and identify instances where they should have responded differently or made different choices. If you are never looking backward for mistakes, you will not self-correct and those same mistakes will keep appearing until you finally address them. Personally, I want to be the best version of myself that I can be and that requires continuous assessment and correction.
5. Admitted to God, to ourselves, and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs.
Again, this is something everyone should be doing on a regular basis. You should do this during contemplative states, whether that is meditation, prayer, or another form of internal reflection. This self-assessment of our personality and the way it manifests is an important step toward balance and spiritual maturity. This step does not ask for external validation, but instead places the burden upon the individual. As we reflect in this manner, we compare the way we have treated ourselves and the way we have treated others to our own standards of moral and ethical behavior. When we do this with a critical eye, we find instances where our moral compass might have been out of calibration and we can correct it. Life is a multitude of experiences. New experiences present new challenges and if we are performing regular self-assessments our moral compass will always be calibrated and ready for what comes next.
6. Were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of character.
7. Humbly ask him to remove our shortcomings.
I’m going to condense six and seven because they all fall within the purview of aligning to your higher self and your intended life path. It does not matter what name you give the external guidance, all that matters is that you have reached a place in life where you are requesting assistance. Our ability to make free-will decisions -good and bad ones- is what makes all of us unique facets within the universal consciousness. As previously stated, you can decide to remain in the dark dead end alley, or you can ask your spiritual GPS for the guidance that leads you back to your path. As soon as you ask with heartfelt sincerity, assistance will be provided. The key is that you have to ask and be ready to incorporate the answers that come.
8. Made a list of all persons we had harmed and became willing to make amends to them.
9. Made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others.
10. Continued to take personal inventory and when we were wrong promptly admitted it.
Let’s combine eight, nine, and ten since they address the same concept, an accounting of our moral compass with regard to interactions between self and other selves. I use the terms self and other selves because it clearly defines the nature of individualized consciousness. Regardless of the type of human vehicle we are currently driving, the composition of our consciousness is identical. As our sphere of consciousness matures, we increase in energetic potential. At a point in the process, the energy within the consciousness begins to extend beyond the barrier membrane. It is here that we begin to feel the energy of others and start to understand our true nature. Our interaction with other selves is the main lesson of being incarnated on earth. The way we treat others creates an energetic in consciousness that acts like a magnetic attractant. If you are kind and loving to those you interact with, you will draw this energy toward you and your life will reflect it. Conversely, if you are hateful and self-serving in your dealings with others you will find the same happening to you with increasing frequency because you are attracting it to you. The moment you shift this energy, in this case attempting to repair the damage, you begin to change the energy you are transmitting. If you can do that through personal interaction that’s great, but the key component is the inward acknowledging and the shifting of your intentions using free-will. Like step four, continual introspection is required so that any lapses can be identified and corrected before they become engrained habits.
11. Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious contact with God as we understand the concept of a higher power.
I modified eleven and twelve slightly to apply beyond the original scope intended by the author because these twelve tenets are core concepts of a spiritual and rewarding life. We exist within a conscious universe who has created the beauty of individualized self-awareness that we all enjoy. I want to repeat that one part, “We exist within it”. While there are reductive energetics in play that allow galaxies and planets to create their own constructs, the universe is conscious and aware of all that occurs within it. It does not matter what your concept of a higher power is, or what name you assign it. If you are consciously aligning to love, hope, and unity, I assure you the universe is listening. Meditation and prayer engage a portion of your consciousness that responds much like a muscle in your body. The more you use it, the stronger it gets and the easier the task becomes.
12. Having had a spiritual awakening as a result of these steps, we try to share this message with others and incorporate these principals into all our affairs.
The application of this last step is implemented using personal discernment. A profound spiritual awakening is extremely personal and affects each person differently. Depending upon the level of awakening, you may want to shout your revelations from the rooftop, or you may begin to question the fabric of your reality. In either case or anywhere in between, dialog with others is a critical component of understanding and evolving. Soliciting external viewpoints and sharing council is the main reason individualized consciousness was created in the first place. The people we surround ourselves with and call friends will be those who resonate with the energy we are transmitting. As you share your message of awakening and your energy continues to shift, old friends unwilling to move with you will fall away. New friends who share your energy and perspective will appear along your journey of self-improvement. This is the ascending energetic path every consciousness is following. We are responsible for the path of this lifetime, but the journey began many lifetimes before this one and does not have a destination. We all must calibrate our moral compass and move forward in genuine compassion for ourselves and those we interact with. This single intention will place you firmly within the guard rails of your intended path.
In service to all,
Todd R Deviney

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

MORE ON TIMELINES
Question from Susanna:
I’ve been thinking about Timelines and I am wondering: Can two people who know each other at this time be living in two different timelines… kinda like the Mandela Effect but not in the past, but in the Now?
Could one person be living in a Timeline where he/she sees a situation or event that happened as true, and another is living in a different Timeline where the opposite fact or situation is also true? Simultaneously. And if so, what does that mean? I’m trying to figure out the split, how it will work, and how it’s effecting the world around me at this time. Thanks!
Answer:
The first thing to discuss is the nature of concurrent timeline constructs that exist upon a planetary sphere. As we exist within the reality of 2021, most of the incarnated population believes this is the only material reality. As we look backward, a single historical record leads us to the apex of our current evolution. Turning our attention to the future, we then attempt to forecast the creation of a single trajectory. This single timeline, single life narrative creates a deep immersion for third density consciousness within the veil of separation. Being highly invested in the narrative of a timeline creates deep energetic signatures within consciousness. Energetic expansion through interaction with self and other selves is the reason the various games of experience exist. However, the veil of separation becomes permeable as you approach the energetic of fourth density consciousness because it can no longer hold back the energy you possess. It is here that you begin to see material constructs for what they are, classrooms for learning.
Continuing with the classroom analogy, timelines generally keep their doors shut so that students from other classes won’t wander in or disrupt a class immersed in learning. There are many timelines currently in play on Earth, but few are aware anything beyond them exists. This is because the energetic doors (by design) are separating one from the other. There are mechanical means to slip between classrooms, and there are various guided modalities (QHHT, BQH, AURA, etc.) that allow consciousness to energetically connect, but for the most part the separation is solid. This is the normal experience of a life(within)time. Where things begin to get muddy is when timelines merge or diverge. Since we are well into the process of a diverging timeline, I will only focus on this aspect.
In polarized environments, timelines diverge for several reasons which were explained in my second book. The divergence we are currently experiencing is a result of an ascending fourth density collective that is breaking away from a third density timeline that will remain in play. This manifests as an energetic separation in consciousness long before the final physical separation occurs. It is no coincidence that two groups have formed with diverging objectives as this is an energetic requirement. People throughout the world are looking at each other wondering “How can you possibly believe (insert subject X ) is true when I know that (insert subject Y ) is the real truth?”
This is the energetic alignment that we are all choosing. As we do this, we are tuning our consciousness to the frequency of the construct we will find ourselves in. This energetic choosing has been underway for several years and the chasm between the energies is deep and wide as most have chosen where they want to be. You will find it difficult to change opinions or sway ideology at this point. From a timeline management perspective, this creates an easy accounting of what will be needed to support the populations within the separated timelines.
It may feel like some people you know are already living in another reality because they are immersed in a worldview you no longer share. This is because the timelines have not completely diverged yet. You will absolutely know when the divergence occurs because it will literally be Earth-shaking and undeniable. Both timelines will experience the physical loss of a lot of people, but not the same people. I hope that answered your question.
The important thing to remember is that all of this is nothing more than a game of experience, and we all chose which game we wanted to play. The daily drama of politics, environment, hatred of others, and war, are only one side of the choices available. The higher energetic is love, acceptance, and inclusion as we are all facets of universal consciousness driving different model cars. You may be driving a blue Ford this lifetime, a red Chevy in the next, and a green Hyundai after that.
Sure, you can focus on the negative if you want, but you need to be cognizant of what that is aligning you to. We are all energetic radio receivers that pick up the stations we tune into. I choose to tune into the station of love, hope, and unity. I consciously reject the station of fear, hatred and division regardless of how strong it tries to broadcast its message.
In service to all,
Todd R Deviney
YouTube: Enlightened Aspect Productions

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

THE PERSPECTIVE OF TIMELINES
Todd…. question about Timelines:
I’m reading book #2 now. Got through chapter 3 with ease, as it seems like a recap. Then got halted with the math and science in chapter 4. I put the book down for a few days. Then checked the table of contents for timeline discussions (because I’m really fascinated by that topic) I and skipped over to that section. (Not like me, as I prefer to read a book cover to cover in order….a little OCD perhaps.) I’m enjoying the analogy of the rooms and clocks and grasping the concepts, kinda. I plan to read it again to get the full meaning.
Anyway, my thought of this morning: Can two people who know each other at this time be living in two different timelines… like the Mandela Effect but not in the past, but in the Now? Here’s the example, I posted a news article on my FB wall. My sister commented that it wasn’t true and that I should “check my facts” and “know better” than to trust the source I quoted. I didn’t engage but went straight to Google and searched for info on the fact in question. In plain sight, easy as pie, the first two mainstream results substantiated the statement in the article she was questioning. I took screenshots and posted them as a reply to her comment. That was last night.
This morning I woke up thinking about it and the concept occurred to me that she could be living in a Timeline where the fact in question as she sees it is true, and I’m living in a different Timeline where the fact as I see it is true? Simultaneously. And if so, what does that mean? Or was she just being blinded by prejudice? I’m trying to figure out the split, how it will work, and how it’s effecting the world around me at this time. Thanks!
RESPONSE:
As a general rule, timelines are separated from each other as they operate within different energetic spectrums. Consciousness incarnating within the various constructs are tuned to operate within them using the brain/body interface. At this moment, timelines exist where consciousness can choose to incarnate as Romans and Vikings as they co-create their future trajectories. Obviously, what they are creating now will be different from what our history has recorded. This is because our current timeline diverged from them long ago. As separate material constructs, third density consciousness remains unaware that multiple realities exist and are overlapping upon the same planet. As we gain the energy and move into fourth density abilities, energetic overlap begins in earnest and new awareness begins to flood our consciousness. The veil of forgetfulness loses its usefulness and by design thins as the energies of consciousness overpower it. These concepts are discussed in detail in the second book. The important point here is that when you are ready, expanded awareness, which may include the ability to “see or sense” other timelines begin to manifest. Keep in mind that we are still talking about distinctly separate timelines. Your original question, while worded to infer separate timelines, is related to what is happening as consciousness incarnated in a timeline experiences the process of diverging.
When a timeline construct diverges, the consciousness (plants, animals, and humans) embodied within it must separate from one timeline into two. Below third density self-awareness, this is an arbitrary selection that is chosen for the plants and animals. Third density consciousness however must choose which construct they are going to align with. Alignment to a construct is a result of where you are focusing your intentions. In the example images associated with this article, I took Figure 40 from book two and increased the detail. What we see are two timelines that are bifurcating as one moves into the positive and the other moves into the negative. If you are focusing on self interest and separation, you are aligning yourself to the negatively diverging construct. To move with the positive timeline, you would need to shift your focus to one of collectivity and inclusion. The nuances of these two choices are obvious so I won’t create an extensive list of supporting characteristics, but they are inferred. From our current vantage point (especially in America) the two constructs are easy to identify as the gradients between dark and light continue to diminish with the lines between them becoming clear for those who are using energy to guide their discernment process. The reason some are using discernment is that the ascending construct is a higher energetic fourth density envelope. This means that those moving into it are going to have an expanded awareness of what is happening and should clearly see the divergence while those unready or unwilling to embrace the energy will have no idea.
The second image associated with this post shows that as a divergence takes place there is a period of “time” where the result of intentional focus separates the consciousnesses into the timelines that they are aligning with through their own free-will. There is currently a huge push to keep the intentional focus of as many as possible on fear and hopelessness, and with the above information the reason becomes clear. This is why many of my articles say that we are all making choices, and that everyone should choose wisely.
Because we are making choices and choosing what we wish to focus on, there is a clear division between ideologies. You can try to change the focus of those you care about, but we are so far along in the process it is unlikely that you will change their opinion unless they have the energetic capacity to shift gears quickly. It is easy to disregard these differing view points as something that has always existed (and created political parties in opposition as a result). However, I think most people sense that there is something different this time, even those still deeply in separation.
While I can’t ‘see’ events during the divergence (probably because I have some lessons that I asked for), I can see what happens after the divergence and polarity is removed. The negative timeline needs a bigger ‘world event’ to bring them together in collectivity while the positive one will miss most of that. Farther down the road, the timelines will eventually merge again as was shown in Figure 43 of book two. Ultimately, it makes absolutely no difference which timeline you wind up in because they all lead to the same place. This perspective frustrates people who talk to me passionately about which timeline we are in and how important (insert topic here) is to our ascension process.
No… we are all here to learn from our interactions with other consciousness and increase in wisdom and energetic potential as a result. That is the only thing that matters. There is a reason why higher order consciousnesses tasked with managing material timelines refer to them as “games of experience”, because that is all they are. As we gain expanded insights into consciousness and the concepts of ascension, we have to maintain focus on the true purpose of it all.
Maintain integrity in all of your interactions and seek the best result for all concerned when you have an ability to determine the outcome. Treat everyone you encounter as a reflection of yourself and help when it is needed. This is what we are here to learn, and we chose a tough school to learn it in. Nothing else matters.
In service to all,
Todd R Deviney